Stress to Success: Week 5

 Abortions, Miscarriages, and Difficulty Conceiving

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Abortions:

• Who this is for - 1 in 3!
• What have you been taught about abortion?
• When real life kicks in
  
• Cultural thoughts - How is everyone impacted by a hot topic?
• Traumas for men 
  
• Powering through it v. true healing
• I am bad, I should've..., I have to make up for this, I did my best, I'm going to be punished, I regret my choice
  
• Somatic clues that some remnant from a prior abortion is unresolved
• Spirit babies

Miscarriages, Conception Failures, and Healing:

• Broken v. Working
• Messages you get from the collective - not a real loss, you should get over it soon, you'll have another one, there are bigger losses, etc.
• Miscarriage - best to give your body a year before trying again 
• Outlining the trauma for yourself: acute traumas of loss v. vague ripples of traumas
• "Protective" beliefs you adopted - do they serve you? 
• You and your partner. Does difficulties bring you two closer together in the long run? Or do they cause a little divide? Communication, empathy, giving each person space for their personal process. 

Common Limiting Beliefs:
My body is broken, not as good as others'.
I need medical help in order to conceive.
I can't wait a whole year to try again - I'm running out of time. 
My eggs are old. 
I deserve these difficulties. 
No one understands me.
My husband can't support me. 
I have to do this alone. 
I've ruined my chance and there's no fixing that.

Treatment ideas - and how to choose the best treatment to heal an old pattern of energy.